How do you stop being Catholic? I only stopped being Church of England when I converted to Catholism after I got married. The one thing about the mass is that it doesn't matter what language or where it is it always follows the same route so as long as one person is the congregation knows when to kneel etc so does everyone else.

I was married for 9 years before I got preganant, no birth control and a hubby who is like a rabbit (blush) we couldn't figure out why no kids arrived but then one day bingo! I'm throwing up and the dr says I'm expecting, lol I phone him back the next day because I was sure he'd mixed me up with someone else! So it may happen yet you never know. lol books are less complicated than kids and cheaper too! On a positive side at least you can talk about something other than chicken pox and nappy rash!