Authors also draw on their own experiences, and if 97% of sexually active persons overall holds true for writers, then it’s not completely bizarre that there would be a number of scenes with oral sex in them.
A little unsettling, isn't it, to think that when you read a particularly kinky lemon by someone you know they could be transmuting what they did in RL last night (or want to do) to their characters of choice?
I never thought people would actually think that until a few years online in the Thundercats fandom, when someone referred to adult RPing on IM as "having sex" with them.
Totally killed adult IM RPing with me for awhile, let me tell ya... Nothing like having a laugh at friendly weird story-esque pr0n only to find out that the person on the other end is more thinking he's actually getting it on with you as cybersex. *Eeek!*
As for the oral sex spit/swallow issue - I agree... gag reflexes are a reality so the whole "she was a sheltered, inexperienced virgin but effortlessly deep throated him and loved it" lemons make me laugh heartily.
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Date: 2005-05-19 11:03 pm (UTC)A little unsettling, isn't it, to think that when you read a particularly kinky lemon by someone you know they could be transmuting what they did in RL last night (or want to do) to their characters of choice?
I never thought people would actually think that until a few years online in the Thundercats fandom, when someone referred to adult RPing on IM as "having sex" with them.
Totally killed adult IM RPing with me for awhile, let me tell ya... Nothing like having a laugh at friendly weird story-esque pr0n only to find out that the person on the other end is more thinking he's actually getting it on with you as cybersex. *Eeek!*
As for the oral sex spit/swallow issue - I agree... gag reflexes are a reality so the whole "she was a sheltered, inexperienced virgin but effortlessly deep throated him and loved it" lemons make me laugh heartily.