But I also think if you really love something, but are really done with it, then you pass it along to someone else instead of burying it.

Isn't that true? I also understand how the bitterness and sadness of the involved caused the latter course to be picked as only option.

It doesn't mean others have to stand by it, and in fact there has been talk to plot a revamp here: http://mefa-ratings.livejournal.com/2475.html As you'll see, there is a great deal of support for pooling resources with you, as well. :)